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MIND THE GAP
You’re building a side hustle into a full hustle, but you struggle to find the time.
A question I often get is how you manage your time so that you’re able to do full-time employment and still work on your side hustle. It can be overwhelming to have work responsibilities at a place you’re probably not thrilled to be at and work on something that you’re passionate about. Plus, you still have to spend time with the family, eat, sleep, and have a life.
CLOSE THE GAP
The key to balance is to reprioritize professional and personal responsibilities, while still getting plenty of sleep.
They say Beyoncé has the same 24 hours in a day. True. But the Beyoncé of today has a team and staff. Her 24 hours are multiplied. We must look at early-career Beyoncé, the one who made tradeoffs.
The question is, what are you willing to give up or pause, to achieve your goals?
By the end of this edition, you will better understand how to balance between your 9-to-5 and your 5-to-9 by reprioritizing your time.
⏱️Reading time: 10 minutes
Busyness is not productivity
Working 9 to 5
You matter
Motivation is a fickle beast
Suggested time blocking
TL;DR
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Busyness is not productivity.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘spending’ time. Time is as valuable as money. You need to spend it in the right places to get the best return.
I once worked for a high-level leader who confused business with productivity. While some of my colleagues seemed perpetually busy, they weren’t necessarily productive. The return was low. No shade. And I was focused on producing with a high return, but it didn’t look busy.
My colleagues weren’t incompetent; they were meeting the expectations of the leader. He valued being busy. Don’t be that guy.
Focus on what moves the needle.
Have you ever heard the phrase ‘work on your business, not in your business”? Working on your business focuses on the big picture and strategic direction. Working in your business means the day-to-day tasks.
A common mistake is thinking operational tasks are working on the business. Big corporations make this mistake too. The operational tasks are seductive because you can see immediate results.
Ask yourself if the task is operational or if it will move the business forward. You should spend more time on tasks that move the needle or revenue-generating activities.
Use your best hours wisely.
For me, the morning is my best time to be strategic and creative. After 2:00 pm, that’s the best time for me to switch to analytical or functional tasks. Find out what works for you.
Get your employer’s work done first and during their work hours. Plan your 5 to 9 work times the same way. Leave the weekends for working on your business and the weekdays for working in your business.
Use your commute time to listen to podcasts or books that will help you in your business.
No is a complete sentence.
We don’t like it when people tell us no, but we also don’t consider the impact of ‘yes’ on them. The best leaders in the world will tell you they say ‘no’ to things, tasks, and requests that don’t serve the greater purpose.
Do not let people spin the narrative that you aren’t a team player because you say no. Focus on the right priorities that produce the greatest results. That creates value.

Automate and outsource what you can.
You don’t have to do everything yourself. Find tools to streamline your workflows. Try a virtual assistant. You don’t have to clean out the garage; hire an organizer to do that for you. I love a good DIY project, but when I needed to paint multiple rooms, I budgeted for it and hired a painting service. I stick to the small weekend projects as DIY.
💡 Recommended reading: Essentialism - The disciplined pursuit of less by Greg McKeown.
Working 9 to 5
I’m going to hold your hand when I say this.
The job you are putting in 50+ hours to, checking email for, and so on, will replace you in a heartbeat. When I was laid off from a company, they were already posting for my replacement before I made it home.
Reclaim your time. Do the work you’re hired to do. Don’t go above or beyond. The caveat is that if you truly enjoy your job and want to advance, then, of course, do so, but within reason. Meet all of your deadlines and provide high-quality work. Arrive and leave when it’s time to arrive and leave.
Do not steal your employer’s time. You are the clock for your paid job. Don’t work on a side hustle on the clock. That’s wage theft. And it’s not right, no matter how upset you are.
Do not use your employer’s resources. Have your own computer, printer, and other necessary equipment. Many companies put it in their employee agreements that anything created on their time, their dime, or their resources belongs to them. Don’t even use their WiFi!
Use your PTO. Take a few days or a week from work and don’t go on vacation. Use the time to work on your business, spend time with family and friends, and maintain your wellness routine.

You matter!
By now, I think most of us have figured out that we are cogs in a machine. And companies want their machines up and running. This doesn’t mean there aren’t caring leaders out there. I’ve worked for many caring individuals, but the company itself is primarily driven by profit.
As you balance your gig and side-hustle, you must prioritize yourself and those you care about. Or you will treat yourself the same as the company treated you.
Get sleep. It’s a weird badge of honor to talk about how little sleep you’re getting. Sometimes, the job requires extended work hours, but not every day. If it is every day, what is the value of that work? Why are doctors in training allowed to go without sleep while pilots are taken out of rotation after reaching a certain number of hours?
Establish or maintain a health and wellness routine. Even 30 minutes a day has benefits. I like first thing in the morning because then no matter how crazy my day gets, I’ve got that part done.
Connect with others who are on the same path. Use LinkedIn for its intended purpose - networking. Find and connect with like-minded individuals. Join communities to swap ideas, share stories, and get a boost. You don’t need to do it alone.
Even Beyoncé said she had to prioritize rest when she experienced health issues.

I’m learning to break the cycle of poor health and neglect, focusing my energy on my body and taking note of the subtle signs that it gives me. Your body tealls you everything you need to know, but I’ve had to learn to listen. It’s a process to change habits and look past the bag of chips and chaos everywhere.
💡 Recommended reading: The Sleep Revolution - Transforming your life, one night at a time by Ariana Huffington.
Motivation is a fickle beast.
If motivation were a person, it would text you WYD after weeks of ghosting you and expect you to be excited. Discipline is what will carry you through. Establish a set of habits and maintain consistency. Start small and link them together.
For example, commit to 30 minutes of activity in the morning. During your nightly routine, put your exercise clothes next to your bed and your alarm (yes, your phone) across the room. Add making your lunch to your nightly routine, or while you’re preparing dinner. You get the drift.
Linking small habits together creates a big habit. That’s discipline. Discipline shows up when motivation has left you on the floor, clutching a pint of ice cream.
💡 Recommended book: Atomic Habits by James Clear

💡Suggested Time Blocking💡
This time blocking is intended to help you get started. It may not work for you and your family. This shows that you can do your job, sleep, work on your side hustle, and spend time with family and friends.
This is about making trade-offs. Remember, early-career Beyoncé had to make trade-offs, and so will you. So do I.

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THE GAP DĒMĬSTəFĪED
By reprioritizing your time, managing your work responsibilities within reason, putting yourself on the list, and remaining disciplined, you will find the time you need to work on and in your business.
Life is about tradeoffs. While all of this sounds easy, it will be challenging at times, and other times it will be rewarding. Not everyone who takes the risk makes it, but I would bet they’re all glad they took a chance on themselves.
TL;DR - Reprioritize your time, shift your focus at work, develop habits that serve, and take care of yourself to balance your full-time job and your side hustle.
Busyness is not productivity: reprioritize your time so that you are focusing on tasks that move the needle. Productivity has higher rewards than busyness. It’s okay to say no. Lean into the work times that are best for you. If you’re more creative in the morning, push administrative tasks to the afternoon.
Working 9 to 5: get your employer’s work done first while deprioritizing the hours spent outside of normal working hours. Don’t use your employer’s time, resources, or even WiFi. Get your own.
You matter: lay down the no-sleep banner and prioritize your health, wellness, and spending time with family. Don’t treat you the same way your employer treats you.
Motivation is a fickle beast: motivation isn’t consistent. Be disciplined and create habits that serve you. Start with small habits and link them together to become big habits.
Suggested time blocking: Not sure where to begin, this is a thought-starter on how to break up your week. Customize to what works best for you and your situation.
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